Tate tungah cikmah hunin gending kilawmlo thu 7 te
Leei kep zawh ding pen thupi hi. A diakdiak in tano, naupangneu te mai ah pau ciangin kidop huai mahmah hi. Na kammalte in amaute tungah kaw bangin kimat in olno takin kilakhia kik theilo hi. Na kammal zat dante le kampau kidawm inla anuai aa thu 7 te zong napelh zawh nading hanciam hamtang in.
Nulepa te in i tate ahoih dingin i lamen kim ciat hi. Ahi zongin, nulepa pawlkhatte in a tate mai ah kammal kilawmlo, kampau hoihlo a paukhiatna hangun a piangkhia ding a nungsang thute olmawh khalo uhi.
Naupang pattah dan ding tawh kisai in mipil ten kum tampi sung zong in, bawl in phuah in om uhi. Ahizongin khat veivei ciangin a hoihlam sangin a sia lam khawng zong piang thei mawk hi. Naupang khat koi ci pattah ding, koi ci makaih ding cih thu hoihte tawh kikop in a langkhat ah zong thusia in na zui veve hi.
Naupang khat a umbawk pai hun a kipan in nulepa te pattahna, bawldan thute tung kinga in a lungsim puak hong kilam ahi zaw hi. Hi bang hun ah hoihtak a makaih le apantah thei nulepa te pen lampi man a kha siam nulepa te hong suak uhi.
Hih anuai aa thu 7te pel hamtang in
(i) Zuau gen kei in
Nulepa ten tate nasepna khat peuhpeuh pen aman neilo asuah ding ki deihlo hi. (Gtn. Laisin sangkahna, zatui zaha neknate). bangmah ci kei ni teh, bangmah hikei cih na le tua tawh akibang kampaute tate mai ah kidop huai hi. Nulepa pen tate aading in a etteh uh lamlak aksi ahi hi. Nulepa in zuau a gen uh leh, taten zong a sawtlo in zuau hong gen thei pah ding uhi.
(ii) Atawntung in aw, he ci den kei in
Vaipuak laktheihna lungsim anei nulepa te in amau uukna le lunglutnate ah ahoih pen deih uhi. Ahizong in Itna icih pen nate tawh kiciamteh theilo in na khualna le na veina tung ah kinga zaw hi. Ahizong in, ihk, hilo na cih na hangtawh na tate ngaihsuttawm theihna lungsim (creativity) kisia sak kei in.
Khinkhai na leh thuman na (fairness) in a thupi pen ahi hi.
(iii) Min khel vawh kei in
Phawh (sponge) khat in a kim aa om tuite a hup mang dan mah bangin, na tate in na kammal, kampau te hup pahpah uhi. Dahpa cin na sap le thadah pa, bangmah hanciam nuamlo mipa khat in hong khangkhia ding hi. Tua hi aa, min hoihlo, min khel te vawh kei in. A kicing sitset kua mah ki omlo hi.
(iv.) Teh-kak kei in
Nulepa te nisim gamtat kampaunate tungpan tate in tawmtawm in a gamtat kampau dan ding sinin la uhi. Mi khat tawh na tehkhak ciangin na kammal zat theih ahi Na nau sang nangh zaw lawmlawm, Na lawmten hoihtak bawl thei in, a bangcia nang hoihtak bawl theilo? A bangcia Cingpi bangin thumang lo na hia? cih te in naupangte angsung lungsim (childrens egos) te susia hi. Hi bang te hangin na tate amaule amau hi akisakna, thupi akisakna lungsim omlo in mikhat langpan nopna lungsim le hazatna lungsim lam ah lampial sak zaw hi. Hih in ahih leh naupang te tung bek ah hilo in khangno, upa khangham te tung ah zong a hi thukhat ahi hi.
(v) Gensia, kosia kei in
O laimal bem velval a at ciangin bemkim lo in ki kui zingzeng kha thei mah ding hi. La asak ciangin a aw zaulen kha thei mah ding hi. Amau te sepna ah a manlohna te ah thapia in, amau te ngaihsutna, a maute sepkhiat ngamna te ah phat bawl zaw in. Amaute laisinna, nasepna, melpuak, kikholhpih lawmlegual, le a teel uh thute ah kosiatna le gensiatna zang kei in. Amaute gualzawhnate le hoihna te ah kipakna kammal genkhia zaw in.
(vi) Na zak noploh kammal te paukhia kei in
Ki ciamna, phuisamna, hamsiatna, hapna, nu le pa lam tawh kisai ciamnuihte, midangte gensiatna, thu khat na khat peuhpeuh upmawh batlohna, za kiatna cihte hangin thumna tauna te kihel hi.
(vii) Mawhsiat kei in
Pa, Nu dinmun pen nasia in, lianlua mahmah ahi manin tua dinmun lian tawh a kituaklian, a kicing sitset kuamah ki omlo hi. Khat veivei ciangin, tano te hangin lunggimnate ki tuakkha thei hi. Inn a nit aa leh innpuah ding vaipuak anei pen na tate zong kikha thei ding hi. Hi bang hun ah na tate mawhsiat suk pah kei inla, zong a vaipuak a zolo pen gawtbawl kei zaw in. Khutkhat tawi, khe khat khai bangin ki bat kim liailiaina (harmony) na inn sungah ultung sak in tua hileh na mailam hunte hong tangpha semsem ding hi.
Nk Khanno
Ref; Family.share.com – “7 coisas que você nunca deve dizer aos filhos” by Michele Coronetti
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