Banghangin Lee Kuan Yew in leitunga gam neu cik Singapore pen a kim a pama gam lianzaw te sangin khantohna manlangsak zaw hiam? Banghangin Obama in a kidempih midangte sangin mipi deihsakna tang zaw hiam? Banghangin Martin Luther King Jr in mihing tul tampi lungsim zo in Washington DC ah lampi zuihna nei zuahzuah thei uh hiam?
Atunga mite in a deihna uh mipi deihna suaksak zo mawk uh hi. A ngimna uh mipi ngimna suaksak zo mawk uh hi. Mipi tamzaw in a deih uh leh a lunggulh uh amau makaihna sungah a lianpen in koih thei zen uh hi.
Makai lawhcing cih a kigen ciang ama makaihna leh ama pilna siamte sangin mipite a lawpsak siamzia, mipite a lunglutsak siamzia, mipite deihna leh lunggulhna a theihpihzia uh kidawk masa hamtang hi. Tua manin makai siam kici peuhmah in mipi lungsim leh deihna theih masak in nei hamtang uh hi. Amah makaipa deihna himasalo in mipi deih leh lunggulh thupisak penpen uh hi. Nam thum in ensuk leng:
1. Bangin Mipi Lawpsak Hiam?:
Bangcih leng mipite in makaipa adingin a nuntakna leh hun leh sum leh pai nangawn kham ngamin semsak hiam cih theih masak kisam hi. Bangcih leng mipi in zingsang nangawn sawt ihmu ngamlo in thobaih in makaipa adingin sep ngap uh hiam cih tel masak kisam hi.
Nasepna ah sum tampi a sangte sangin sum tawmzaw a ngahte in nasep hahkatzaw thei hi kici hi. Kumpi nasem khat sangin Pasian nasem khat in ama nasepna ah hahkatzaw thei hi. A khasum uh en leng kumpi nasemte khasum tamzaw hi. Meigong khat in inn lama mite sum tawh cial nei in, pawlkhat sum haulo ka hih manin na hihtheih zahzah in hong huh un ciin cial hi. Kua in nasep hahkatzaw hiam cih nitak nasep khit ciang a et kik uh leh sum thalawhpa sangin sum ngahlo a nasep huhpa in leisek tam ciangzaw hi kici hi.
Mihing in sum ngahna bek sangin tupna khat, ngimna khat, deihna khat tawh na a sep ciangin tam semzaw, hahkatzaw hi cih kimu hi. Tua ahih manin makai khat in mipite lungsim ah bang ngimna, bang deihna, bang tupna om hiam cih thei in a makaih ding kisam hi ci uh hi.
2. Makaipa Ngimna Bang Hiam cih Mipi Theisak Ding:
Muhkholhna a nei makai ahih leh mipite kisap leh mipite deihna khenlam ah a hoih a kisam tampi na mukholh ding hi. Tuate mipi in mu ban nailo ahih man in bangci theihsak theih ding cih a gel kul ahi hi. Mipi telsak masalo, theisak masa siamlo in a kalsuanpih leh mipi in makaipa deihna theilo ahih manin cimhuaisa, lusuk huaisa, mawkpai kisa ahih manin makaipa nung zuizo lo uh hi.
Makaipa in mipi in muban nai kei tah ciin mipi sung pan sum meet bawl bangin meetna ding gelsimna a neih zenzen leh mipi in a theih ciang ‘makaipa in mipi hong meetbawl’ ci ding uh a, lungkia in kuamah in zui nuam nawnlo ding, nungheisan ding uh hi.
Tua ahih manin bang deihna hi a, bang ngimna hi a, bangci kalsuan sawm na hiam cih mipi te na telsak siam mahmah ding kisam hi. I theihsa mah bangin mihing khat leh khat thu kizaksaksawn siamna (communication skills) pen makai a semte peuhmah in a neih pelmawh ahi hi. Tua siamna a neite peuhmah lah makai a sem siamte na hizel hi. Tua manin makai pen sehtawm, teltawm hilo in a nu gilsung pan hong pian cil limlim in makai siam dingsa a hong piang hi kici hi.
3. Na Tup Na Ngim Mah Sem Ngitnget In
Makai khat na hih khit nak leh na tup na ngim khat mah a lawhcinna ding, a tangtunna dingin lungkialo a na sep ngitnget ding ahi hi. Nang bek in sem zolo ding na hih manin mipi tawh na sep khop hamtang ding hi a, mipi na lawpsak siam ding kinpi in na neih ding ahi hi. Mipi in telpah kei taleh na ngimna cimtak hetlo, lungkia hetlo in mipi tungah na gengen, na kohkoh, na pulaklak ding ahi hi. A telsiam pah om dinga, a telsiam pahlo om ding hi. A telsiam khempeuh in hong thukimlo dinga, a tello khempeuh in hong niallo ding hi. Tua manin lungkia lo a lungduai taka na deihna, na tupna, na lunggulhna na genpihpih ding ahi hi.
Mipi zol dan tuamtuam om a, a hon a zol ut pawl om a, mimal a zol kul om a, zol kullo a deihna kitel peuh leh hong zui pawl om hi. Ngaihsutna tuampi hanga hong nial zong om thei a, hong langpang khempeuh hong hua, hong do hikhinlo hi. Na tupna a tangtunna dinga hong test, hong kisinsak, na mainawtzo takpi hiam cih hong theinuama hong nungthuappahlo om thei hi. Lungduaina leh cihtakna, lungkiatlohna leh tup leh ngim mangngilhlo a mipi zahtaka kalsuanpih ngitngetna in makaite deihna leh mipite deihna meetna mualsuahpih hi.
Thukhupna:
Bang pawlpi, bang kipawlna makai na hi hiam cih thupi masalo a, na tup na ngim bang hiam, na tup na ngim mipi tungah kitel takin na pulak thei hiam, na pulak khin hiam; a gah lawh ding mipite nang muhkholh bangin na mukholsak thei hiam, na mukholhsak khin hiam; a mu nailo, a tel nailo a om leh lungduai takin na genpih, na kuppih, na holimpih ngitnget hiam cih makai khat na hih leh na ki et tawntung ding ahi hi. Khatvei nihvei gena mipi hong manloh, hong zuihloh, hong telloh ciang na lungkiatpah, na hehpah, na tawppah leh makai gina, makai nam hilo cihna na hi a, na ut mahmah zong makai siam hingeilo ding na kitel ding ahi hi. Makai cih pen utpong cih tawh kingahlo a, a siam deuh, a pianpih limlim mi omzaw hi. Makai siam khat in makaite langpan khin pahlo a, lamdang, makaihzia dang khat lak thei tawntung uh hi. Kiphatsakna leh kisiamsakna (male ego) tawh sep nam hilo a, pil vilvelna leh mipi – tangpi tangta khualna tawh sep ding nam ahi hi. Makai nam na hih leh itna tak tawh makai in nang meetna dingin makaih siamna zang ngei kei inla, a tamzaw phattuamna ding khual tawntung in. Nungzui nam na hih leh zong muanhuaitak in nungzui in makaite khialhna a om a na theih leh itna tak tawh taihilh ngam in, lampi dang lak, lampi thak lak siam tawntung in.
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