Mihing Khuakciimna IQ Leh Lungsimhatna EQ
Intelligence Quotient (IQ) kici khuakciim tehna IQ hoih leh mihing khat in sanghoih ah lutzo dinga asang man tak ciangin zong nasep hoih ahi zato siawan/medical doctor, engineer leh gam makai ulian khat suakthei ding hi. Ahizongin tua anasepna leh panmun lakna ah akip leh lawhcin nang khuakciimna bek hilo Emotional Quotient (EQ) kici lungsim picinna, cihtakna, thukhualna leh thuakzawh hatna anei mihing khat leh makai muanhuai asuah nang EQ in atawsawn kul hi.
Tuhun tak ciangin, IQ hoihte sangin EQ hoihte gualtungtuang leh mazang lawhcing zaw uhhi. EQ hoih mite pen apiangthu khat pepeuh ah thuakzawhna, lungsim kepbit zawhna, midangte’ tungah hehpihtheihna leh teelsiamna lungsim picingin neizo-in kiim-le-paam pan aging thute in nawngkaisakzolo ban ah cihtakna lungsim neipaisuakzo uhhi.
Thu-le-la khat pepeuh ah alangnih tuak thu a om ciangin, kei diktang ing, ka langte akhial ahih manin amaute’tungah thuman bangin thu kikhen hen ci-in hehna leh thangpaihna lungtang tawh apiang thu khat pepeuh ah apuak pah bakbak, khuttum zial pahte pen EQ niamte hi ci-in kiciamteh thei hi.
Lungsimhatna (Emotional Quotient -EQ) Teltheihna Ahuampi Nam (5) Bang Kikhen Thei Hi.
(1) Mihing Khat Amah leh Amah Kitelna (Self -Awareness) – Mihing khat in ama’ lungsim amah ngiat-in kiciantak akiteltheihna ding thupi hi. Khatveivei mi atamzawte in amah leh amah nangawn bangdan mihing hi-in bang lungsim paii ahihiam cih kitelcianlo uhhi. Tua ahih manin, ei-le-ei kitelcian kul hi.
(2) Mihing Khat Amah leh Amah Kikep Zawhna (Self – Control) – Mihing khat in anopna, adahna, ahehna leh athangpaihna ah alungsim akikepzawhna genna hi. Ahizongin, mihingte in alungsim sungah athuakna/ngaihsutnate uh (Emotions/Feelings) imcip ding pulaakkhialo ding cihna hilo leuleu hi. Greek thungaihsun siam mipil Aristotle in acih mah bangin, “mihingte pen ahehbaih alungtom thei nuntakna neite hi” na ci hi. Acihnopna bulpi ah hehtheilo ding cihna hilozaw-in, athu-le-la, amun amualzui-in kua’n tungah banghuna bang hang’n heh ding cih miman, munman ah hehtheih leh lungdam kipahtheih ding cih lungsimhatna/lungsim kepbit zawhna gennopna hizaw gige hi.
(3) Mihing Khat Amah Leh Amah Lungsim Kideeksiamna (Self – Regulation) – Mihing ngeina tawh khatveivei midangte hazatna, thangpaihna, elna leh neumuhnate a om ciangin amah leh amah kideeksiamna hi. Gentehna in abeisa gamtatna leh ngaihsutnate/thupomte tuhun ciang amumalmel omlo/siksanman hilo (Baseless/No evidence and fact based) ahih lam amah leh amah kitelcian tak teh mitawsialkhau let nawnlo-in hunthak leh nathak ah aman thu pomna leh dinngamna/kikhelngam ekhna lungsim kideek zawhna kici thei hi.
(4) Mihing Khat Amah Leh Amah Kithapiaktheihna (Self -Motivation) – Mihingte amau leh amau thakipiaksiamna, kiim-le-paam ah thupiangte leh dinmunte’ hang lungkia leh nungtolhtheih nading tampi om mah tase leh ei-le-ei thasanin thakipiaksiamna genna hi. Mite’sawl ciang bekin avaikuan mapang hilozaw-in ama ngaihsutsiamna leh kithapiaktheihna tawh amaban aman akhuat zote ahihi.
(5) Lainattheihna Lungsim (Empathy) – Midangte thuak ding haksatna khat pepeuh hangin lainattheihna lungsim hi. Lainattheihna lungsim (Empathy) leh hehpihna lungsim (Sympathy) kibanglo hi. Lainattheihna lungsim (Empathy) cih ciangn’n ah hehna leh thangpaihna hangin midang khat ka khttum tawh tum ekh leeng nasa mahmah ding hi, tua ahih man’n ka khtlum ngakha kei ning, aman zong kei hong tum leh ken zong nasa mahmah ding hi ing ci-in alangtuakin ngaihsunsiamna, ei’ tungah hong kibawl ding ideih bang midangte’ ading ngaihsutsak a lainattheihna lungsimna neihna ahihi. Hehpihna lungsim (Sympathy) cih leuleu ciangin mizawng migenthei neek-le-dawn ding leh omna ding inn neilo khat hehpihhuaisakna lungsim hibekin eima neihsate amah huhna dingin hehpihsakna tawh va kipiakhiatuanlo lel hi.
Tua hi a, mihing khat pepeuh in nisim amasuanna leh vaikuanna ah amah leh amah kua hiam kitelcianna (Self – awareness) nei henla, ama’ lungsim aman kembitzo (Self -control) zawh tawh thuah lai zenin, ama lungsim amah leh amah kideekzawhna (Self – regulation) pomsiam a, amah leh amah kithapiaksiamna/ kitawsawn siamna (Self – motivation) khauhpai lailai ding ban ah leitungah nuntak khuasakkhoppih kiim-le-paamte tawh kihuaisiamna/lainattheihna lungtang (Empathy) lawm hoih pen in neih behlai tazen leh leitung tomvei nuntak khuasak sung aheeksuk heektohna leh anangkim ah mazang muibun lawhcing mahmah ding hi.
Mihingkhat akhuakciim mahmah (IQ) ahoih leh sanghoih leh nasep hoihte ngah thei ding aa, lungsimthuakzawh hatna/picinna ( EQ) tawh akihualkimin atonkhop keh akhuasak nuntakzonna leh nasepna ah sawtpitak kho-in kiplo ding a, zakhanna leh midangte tawh kizopna ah zong mazang khollo ding hi. Tua ahih manin, makai lawhcing mihing khuakciim khat (IQ) khat in lungsimhatna/picinna (EQ) tawh hong kop tak ciang’n kuitongzo bek ding hi. Agelh: Bob Tuangpi
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