Mentor nasepna (mi huh makaihna)
Mentor sep na ki pat ma in bangteng theih huai ahiam?Mentor hoih na suahnop leh nang leh nang ki thei masa in la mite zong theih sawm in.
Mitampi te in kei bangci bangin kei khangto ding cih bek lim ngaihsut uh a, amah leh amah ki focus ahih man in akim apam kuamah pantah lo uh hi.
Banghangin, mite ki mentor (makaih,pantah) lo hiam?
1. Insecurity_ ki muanna nei lo. Mi khat peuh in kei mun hong suan kha leh cih ngaihsutna pen ei leh ei ki muanglo i hi.
2. Ego_ Kei cihna lian lua(angsung khuallua) kuama khantoh ding deihsaklo.
3. Inability to discern people’s “Success Seeds”_mite sung a om a khangto, gualzo thei ding khaicite ki muh sak loh man hi.
3. Wrong concept of success: a gualzo cih kammal i teldan manlo. Cullen Hightower in,”na manphatna tehna man om in tuate lak aKhatin, na gualzawhna aphattuampih te ahihi.
4. Lack of training_ kisin na ngahlo te
Cihnopna in, mite in mite pattah dingin angaih sutloh na uh pen, a kul lam/akisaplam sin khakin nei ngeilo uh hi.Mentor dingin na ki pattah theih ding thupi pawlkhat en dih ni.
Mi khat gualzotak a akhantoh na dingin,thutheihna leh siamna (formation or skills) piak bek tawh kicinglo hi.Laithei te agualzo mah mah in ngaihsun le hang leitung ah mi gualzo tawh ki dim ding hi.
Gualzawhna in theihna (knowledge) nung delh pah denlo hi. Hun tampi la ahih man in thu haksa khat hi. Ahi zongin, onghuh thei ding atawpha pawl khat tel le hang mite khantoh nang ki huh thei ding hi.
Etding thu pawlkhat:
A. Mi khempeuh in amah leh amah mimanpha khat a hih lam a ki muh theih ding leh a feel theih ding kisam hi.
Mikhat in amah leh amah aki muan theihna aneih kei lehcikmah ciang bangmah ciang tung ngei lo ding hi.
B. Mikhempeuh in, thapiakna kisam a, tua thaki piakna pen a thuk kik siam ding zong ki sam hi. Mi khat na sep khat , ” hoih mah mah ei, ong han ciam o.” ” Siam si ci” cih te pen. a hoihlohna ki kawk pah sansan sang hoih zaw tham hi.
C. Mikhempeuh pen ama thuin ki hansuah thei hi( naturally motivated)Naupang khat lampai hong kisin phetin theihnop, muhnop hau hi. Amathu in zong in thanuam mah mah uh hi. U liante sungah zong tuabang dan lungsim pen mang nai lo a, ahi zongin a makaih beh thei, ahuh thei ding ki om lo ahih man in a lungsimuh neu in tha zawm in ki om hi. Tua ahih man in tua bang mi te khatvei kaito phongto kik in. Tua bang in hih le cin, amaute ong tho to dinga, amau hih theih bang in ong zawt kik ding uh hi.
D. Mite in na makaihna ongsan theih ma un nang ong en masa uh hi.
Mite in nang ong up, ong muan tak ciang bek in na nung ong zui pan ding uh hi. Mite thu na tel theih zah zah in na pattah/mentor nasep na ah ong matutpih ding hi.
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